Let it go in

I've learned that fully happiness consists in making others happy. The secret of happiness isn't to do with things you like but with you liking the things you do. They say that, this nostalgic feeling is made of illusions, hope, believe in people and yourself and then of friendship. But sometimes it seems like we’re prepared for anything except forhappiness.

The truth is that we are not used to this feeling, as we often take it like usual occurrence. I won’t discuss the concept of happiness and I won’t draw the boundary between happiness and unhappiness. All I’m saying is that we are treating the misery as something that we are obliged to let it accompanying us. Frequently, it seems natural to have moments of despair in our lives, of wander, of envy, and it seems strange not to have large and small dramas that fill our days with urgent moments or not important at all. Often, we don’t know how to behave when happiness hits us with its full speed and we act like we know the wave of euphoria, of excitement, and appreciation for the simple moments that make us feel like we are few inches above ground. We are afraid not to look pathetic if we feel to behave in a particularly way like : jumping, screaming, take the world in our hands, smile without reasons, call someone just to hear their voice, to stay quiet and taste the warmness that lazily flows through our veins and opens our eyes. Pleasure isn’t complicated, but it comes unanticipated and for which we are never ready. In fact, it’s just a feeling that you must have the courage to let go in when they quietly knock at “your door”. It is that feeling that cleans it’s “feet “before it goes inside, even though it doesn’t need to, because it usually floats to be everywhere and nowhere.
The sad conclusion I got is that we can’t afford to be happy and we do this because we got the false impression that we don’t have to combine it with other negative feelings that we got at certain times. We don’t want to leave space for delight through our daily problems because we think that it is a pure feeling and it has to be by itself so nothing can steal its shine.
And because I’ve got so many conclusions over time, I came to realize now how cool are the feelings of gladness are when they spontaneously cross me. We call them (apparently) inappropriate moments. In those awkward and meaningless moments when according to the consciousness would have to cross my sadness, pity, guilt, despair or remorse. I got to experience happiness in all its form- from unexplained happiness to a “seat of fighting” (and no, I’m not referring here to a self-inflicted happiness, but to a real one).
Therefore happiness is no complicated at all. It is not easily achieved, and also isn’t exactly how you read in quotes and in others stories, indeed.
Happiness it is tasted, it splits into small pieces and sometimes its value is added when it gets divided.